Our Story

Hi, we are Rebar and Lola — a loved-up couple (65 & 40). Just two real people who fell in love years ago under blue lights on a yacht in Brisbane. Now we’re navigating life, family, and business with a side of fun, softness, and the unique dynamics of our lifestyle.

Rebar (Daddy) is American, and I (Lola) am Australian — we split our time between the USA and Australia. Our personal relationship falls under DDLG, and through living it deeply and privately for many years, we saw firsthand the lack of safe, respectful, high-quality spaces that truly support relationships like ours... and yours. Without the unfair stigma we are so often faced with.

We saw what was missing: a space that felt soft, safe, and genuinely aligned with the emotional and practical needs of Littles, Brats, and Caregivers. I brought the idea to Daddy, and he said... yes! (YAY). Together, we created LittleAF, a brand built on love, connection, and the idea that everyone deserves a safe, supportive space to be unapologetically themselves.

LittleAF was born from a desire to fill a gap in our lifestyle — to create a space that was inclusive, non-judgmental, and focused on emotional safety. This isn’t a kink shop, you can find those anywhere. This is a lifestyle sanctuary, where rituals are empowering, identities are respected, and love is shown through every little thing. We wanted to create a community-first approach where we can come together and create a little world of our own!

And just like the ingredients in our own dynamic, we understand that this lifestyle isn’t “one size fits all.” I’m a splash of this, a dash of that, and a sprinkle of something else — and that’s okay. We know that every person’s journey and experience is unique. There’s no need to fit into a single mold. In fact, our lifestyle is full of colors, quirks, and personality, and we celebrate that! So whether you're a little bit this or a little bit that — you belong here.

For us, it’s about comfort, safety, and the freedom to express our true selves. It’s not about explicit content or anything harmful — it’s about softness, care, and building meaningful connections with others who share this dynamic.

From our home to yours — thank you for trusting us to help create your softest, sassiest, and safest space. 💕

With love,
Rebar (Daddy) & Lola (aka BabyDoll)
Co-Founders of LittleAF