What is a Brat?
A brat is a consensual role a little or submissive takes on because they enjoy pushing boundaries and getting attention from their Caregiver (Daddy) which of course can lead to some consensual 'funishments' - sometimes this is exactly what the brat seeks. Any attention is good attention *wink wink*
Usually brats are more playful and sassy than outright disobedient or rude. They enjoy pushing buttons and provoking a reaction from their Caregiver which results in getting the attention they crave. Not all littles are brats, and not all brats are littles. It is simply one single role under the wide umbrella of the BDSM lifestyle.
How to Brat?
Bratting is all about pushing playful boundaries, but it’s essential that it remains 100% consensual. Both the brat and their caregiver (or "tamer") agree on what’s acceptable within their dynamic. A brat knows just how to get their caregiver’s attention—whether it’s by playfully talking back, ignoring commands, or getting a little cheeky. This can also involve light teasing or calling each other playful names—all in good fun.
The caregiver responds with agreed-upon funishments, keeping the interaction engaging and fun. In the end, it’s all about mutual enjoyment. Everyone involved is 100% on board with the play, ensuring a positive and safe dynamic for both.
How to Brat Like a Pro
Welcome to the world of bratting! It's all about having fun, pushing boundaries (in a safe and consensual way, of course), and keeping your caregiver on their toes. Whether you're a little seasoned in the art of mischief or just getting started, bratting is a playful way to keep the dynamic fresh and exciting.
Here are some top tips to bratting like a pro:
1. Keep it Light and Fun
Bratting is all about teasing and playful rebellion, not crossing the line into mean or hurtful behaviour. Think of it as keeping the energy fun, mischievous, and loving. You can pout, roll your eyes, or even give a cheeky comment—but remember, it’s all in good fun!
2. Know Your Limits
The best brats know their boundaries. Understand what will get you that fun attention and when it's time to dial it back. Communication is key—if something doesn't feel right, let your caregiver know.
3. Use Your Sassy Side
Bratting isn’t just about being a little naughty. It’s about tapping into that cheeky side of you that loves to stir things up, whether it's with playful sarcasm or cute gestures.
4. Stay Respectful
While bratting is fun, respect for your caregiver’s role is crucial. Always remember that it’s about creating a space where both of you can feel comfortable, cared for, and loved.
5. Create New Challenges
Keep things interesting by creating new ways to brat! Change up your usual antics to keep your caregiver on their toes, whether it’s through clever words or testing their patience in the sweetest way.
Ready to try your hand at bratting? Let the fun begin—and remember, it’s all about mutual enjoyment and connection!
Bratty Tips & Tricks
Need some new ideas to get your caregiver’s attention? Check out our collection of bratty tips, from hiding their keys to getting them to say please all day long! Perfect for any bratty little who loves to stir the pot and create some playful chaos.
- Annoy - Hide their phone, keys or remote and lead them on a wild goose chase
- Role Reversal - Challenge them to spend a day following your rules!
- Whisper under your breath - Then when they ask you what you said. Reply "nothing".
- Rolling Eyes & Poking Tongue is aways a winner for a quick reaction
- Be cheeky and 'blah blah blah' everytime they talk to you
- 'Forget' to make your bed or make a mess
- Spam them - Flood Daddy's phone with a constant stream of messages/photos/GIFS
- Paw at him constantly and whine when he is trying to focus on something
- Gently bite his lip or pull a hair from his beard
- Poke your finger in his mouth every time he yawns
- Leave cheeky notes in his jacket pockets, bag, daily planner, car etc
- Hide items around the house for him to find
- Glitterbomb - Put glitter inside an envelope in the mail pile (Be prepared to clean!)